I write a series of blog posts based on narcissistic abuse on the individual level, but today’s post is about the family dynamic of narcissistic abuse. The research on narcissistic families is very fascinating. Some may think that all narcissists physically abuse or beat their children, but that is not true. What is surprising is […]
The ratings for “The Real Housewives Of Atlanta” have dropped significantly from the past seasons. There are some that will say that it is because of NeNe Leakes leaving the popular show and that may be true. But I would also say one of the reasons the ratings are going down is because the show […]
Tragedy has struck the family, friends and fans Of Deshayla Harris who was shot and killed in Virginia Beach on or around, March 26, 2021. Deshayla who was only 28 years old was one of the shooting victims in a second of three shootings that occurred over a short span that weekend. Unfortunately Ms. Harris […]
Recently, popular YouTuber, Derrick Jaxn, whose real last name is Jackson, was exposed by another popular YouTuber, Tasha K. for cheating on his wife, Da’Naia and this comes as a surprise to his mainly female following who hold him up as an example as a “good” man. But for years other YouTuber’s have been calling […]
A narcissist lives in a world that they create. In this world they protect themselves from feelings of low self worth by creating a “false” self. They often require you to “tip toe” around them by monitoring your behavior in such a way not to offend or anger them. A narcissist will control others by […]
With an ongoing pandemic and so many people losing their jobs or in some way becoming less financially stable, a lot of people are searching for ways to cut costs. Let’s face it, food is expensive but we all have to eat. So what can you do, when you have to eat but your budget […]
So recently community activist, Big U, went onto “The Breakfast Club” morning show and Charlemagne the god, asked him a question and his answer has the internet ablaze and has rapper, Quando Rondo responding on social media. Charlemagne asked if any rappers reached out to him to which Big U said that Quando Rondo did. […]
More than 500,000 Americans have died from COVID-19, which is more than any other country in the world. That is half a million people in the United States that have died from a disease that could easily been prevented from spreading its devastation so thoroughly and completely had the Trump Administration be interested in governing […]
With 80 percent of single parent households being headed women it’s no wonder why many women are stressed. A Baby Mama is a woman who has a child or children with a man she is not married to. That fact alone lead people to assume she will be bitter because it is widely assumed that […]
Recently an interview aired with American journalist, Oprah Winfrey interviewing the Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle and the Duke of Sussex, Prince Harry. The two have left England and their positions within the Royal Family to come to America to live and I definitely have a problem with that and let me explain why….Why would […]
It’s been a few years since The Bad Girls Club has gone off air and for those of us that are fans we have been missing that sinful addiction. Well the Zeus Network has come with a show that is featuring some of the Bad Girls called, “Baddies ATL”. The show is not exactly a […]
I have been watching a channel on YouTube that talks about the experience of Black people living abroad in places like Japan, because I wanted to start traveling when this God forsaking pandemic is over. It’s so exciting to see so many Black Americans are choosing to live in places in Japan. But there are […]
There has been an ongoing beef with two stars of the “Basketball Wives” franchise which appears on VH1. Og Chijindu and Evelyn Lozada have an ongoing feud and Evelyn Lozada is even suing Og Chijindu. But this post is not about that but is more about a discussion that I feel needs happen for people […]
Working in the fast food industry is not easy. So I applaud those that do because you are the real heroes in my eyes. First of all there is dignity in all work, so if the title offends you continue to read to get a full understanding of my post. I worked in the fast […]
Tekashi 69 recently went on IG live and dissed King Von saying that he is resting in “piss”. Whoa, but are you surprised? He has repeatedly disrespected other deceased rappers like Nipsey Hussle without a care in the world for the repercussions. The IG live was filled with him being disrespectful to King Von and […]
With all the drama Dr. Dre has been through we would think he would be keeping a low profile, but nope, TMZ recently caught him out with Apryl Jones having dinner. Well so much for being discreet. Immediately the Internet was set ablaze with speculations that they are together. But what if they were just […]
If you aren’t watching “Love and Marriage Huntsville” on Own Network, and you fancy yourself a connoisseur of reality shows, then you should. This show is bananas and undeniably real. There is a lot going on, on the show and outside of the show. Mainly we are privy the drama involving Martell and Melody Holt […]
Okay, I must admit I am sick of watching television. Since we are all STILL trying to social distance indoors I’m watching all the shows I can find that will capture my attention. If you are a fan of reality shows, especially the ones that are outrageous, I found one that may be worth you […]
So as the pandemic wears on over a year now, celebrities are proving just how outrageously out of touch with their fans they can be. Some are upping the ante because social media has seen it all. But here comes Lil Uzi Vert giving us shock value in the form of posting a picture online […]
We have not seen any updates to the release of “Classroom of The Elite Season 2”, and believe me I have been scouring the internet for credible information. The best I could find was September of 2019, and that was two years ago! So as a fan I just want to know, when will we […]
We are all so very tired of being stuck in the house and wearing masks. If I never hear the phrase “social distancing” again I would be happy as a lark. But as this life changing pandemic wears on we all want to know, will this end? The short answer is yes, the pandemic will […]
Well rappers Lil Wayne and Kodak Black can breathe sigh of relief because one of the things disgraced President Trump did before leaving office was granting them both clemency. He also granted clemency to Desiree Perez who is the C.E.O. of Roc Nation as well as a slew of others. But surprisingly skipped over Joe […]
Recently rapper YFN Lucci, was arrested for murder and has come under scrutiny. But this post is not about him, its about his girlfriend, Reginae Carter. Usually there would an overwhelming amount of encouragement, but there is something about this young lady that makes women not supports her in droves. After all, she is Lil […]
Love her or hate her, one thing about Wendy Williams is she is the queen of stirring up controversy. She has a biopic coming out on Lifetime that is showing us a peek into the life and career of the “shock jock.” Wendy Williams is known for the gossip, or as she puts it, she […]
When “Mr. Right” becomes “Mr. All the Way Wrong” you may be dealing with a narcissist, who has hooked you with one of his favorite tactics to get high quality narcissistic supply. It’s called, “love bombing” and it comes before the “devaluing” stage. And once you are devalued and have no self esteem or confidence, […]
Men love them some Lori Harvey but there is something about Lori Harvey that seems to rub some women the wrong way. So it is being reported that Lori Harvey and Michael B. Jordan are a couple, and while some people are happy for them, there are a certain segment of women who are up […]
While millions around the world were watching the “riot” at the White House, Ava Louise was on TikTok spreading lies in her latest desperate attempt for attention. On the January 6 she made the claim that rapper Kanye West, and makeup guru, Jeffree Star were having an affair. And in between reporting on the mayhem […]
We really need to pray for famed West Coast producer, Dr. Dre. If what is being reported is true, somebody is trying to intention trying to harm him. A few days ago it was reported the billionaire had a brain aneurysm but luckily he was recovering and by all accounts was okay. Dr. Dre is […]
Planning to visit or move to Southern California? Be careful driving, because Allstate and other insurance companies rank the drivers as some of the worst in the country.If you are not native to Southern California driving on the numerous freeways and roadways can be intimidating. Southern California’s have their own way of driving and it […]
Well apparently Twitter has had enough of the drama surrounding Donald Trump. All over world, people watched him hold yet another “super spreader” rally and proceed to incite his supporters to storm the White House in an effort to disrupt the certification of Joe Biden as President. And then, true to his nature, he proceeded […]
So I watched the latest episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta and the one thing that stood out for me to speak about was the activism of Porsha Williams and the celebration her sister Lauren Williams threw to celebrate it. Porsha is evolving as a person and I for one am proud of her. But […]
So you have been dumped or discarded and now you are distraught. It doesn’t help that it seems like the dumper has skated off into the sunset and is blissfully happy without you. You may have put up with a lot only for the dumper to disregard all that and just break it off. You […]
2020 was a rough year, but especially for Vanessa Bryant who lost her child and her husband in February. It seems like after that, the close relationship between Vanessa and her mother Sofia Laine fell apart with Laine being kicked out of her residence that was provided by the Bryant’s. If you thought the relationship […]
With the upcoming transition of power from President Trump to Joe Biden, I for one will be happy to be rid of the ongoing dramatics involving the President and his loyal supporters. These last four years have been more interesting than any reality show I have ever seen on T.V. and much more of a […]
Happy New Year, to all and I hope everyone reading this post is safe, healthy and prosperous no matter the gender. We all made it to see another year…. Yay! Once again I am shedding some light and expressing my opinion using my education and background in human behavior. This time I want to talk […]
So many Americans are suffering financially due to the enormous strain the Covid-19 pandemic has put on the economy and the government has finally passed the $900 billion stimulus bill which includes $600 dollar stimulus payment which most so desperately need. But is it enough? Is it too late? So many people are in financial […]
If you are a fan of the Housewives franchise on Bravo then you know that the reunions are normally explosive as the cast gets their chance to hash out the drama that occurred during the season. But when the Real Housewives sat down for the season 5 part one reunion of Potomac, Gizelle Bryant was […]
As we near the Christmas holiday many of us are planning our holiday meals. As we dream of spiral ham, macaroni and cheese and sweet potato pie, the Japanese are dreaming of the eleven herbs and spices in the KFC fried chicken. I was shocked to find out that the preferred Christmas meal is a […]
With so many people facing financial difficulties due to this worldwide pandemic, it seems a little strange so many celebrities seem to be oblivious despite them also being affected by the Covid-19 health crisis. Rappers in particular have seen a drop in their bottom line if they were depending on doing live shows for income […]
With so many of us still stuck indoors due to the ongoing pandemic and scrounging the internet to find shows to watch, I have been watching the shows on Zeus Network and I must say they are fairly entertaining. They have a show that is on the network that is called “The Conversation” and it […]
Firstly I would like to say I am praying for Americans as we enter the winter months and flu season. It’s been over eight months of the American people suffering through the deadliest health crisis to hit the United States in years. As this pandemic wears on, there seems to be a light at the […]
Are you struggling to find a good show to watch in the middle of the pandemic? Well I found one that is very entertaining and downright hilarious if you ask me, and it’s on the Zeus Network. It’s called, “One Mo Chance”. Take a look at the picture at the pic featured in the blog […]
The statistics on how many Americans remain faithful in romantic relationships are quite dismal. According to hernorm.com, “An issue of Marriage and Divorce journal also stated that 70% of all Americans engage in some kind of affair sometime during their marital life.” Those stats suck. That’s not good for those of us who are interested in being […]
So many rappers have been murdered this year, just like the killings of Black people at the hands of the police so much that many people are becoming desensitized to the violence perpetrated against them. Hardly a week goes by with another social media hash tag being created by fans to memorialize their favorite […]
I can be a busy body at times. Not necessary busy as in doing something, but busy minding other people’s business. That approach to life has never served me well so I have decided to stop the madness and focus on me. I mean it is my life, focusing on others serves no other purpose […]
Narcissistic Women are very superficial, lack empathy and secure senses of self. You may think you won’t encounter any of them as you come into adulthood but oh no, you will still have the deal with bullies even as a grown up. Signs of a Queen Bee Because narcissistic women need attention and validation from […]
We all heard the saying, “The grass is always greener on the other side?” Well it’s an actual, bona-fide syndrome. GIGS or Grass is Greener Syndrome is when a person begins to feel that they can do better in another relationship than the one they are currently in. This can sometimes lead to them dumping […]
So there has been another big altercation that has led to the big fallout and this one is with the ladies of The Real Housewives of Potomac on the Bravo Network. Just in case you need it I have included a clip of the fight. And after you review the fight, I want to move […]
Due to social distancing I am watching documentaries and one of the ones was about Death Row Records. This led me to ponder on all the reasons its CEO, Suge Knight lost the label. These are the 5 things I learned from the Downfall of Suge. 1.Protect your rep You must be a sweetheart to […]
One of the shows I have been binge watching since this social distancing has been Bad Girls Club, remember this guilty pleasure? If you are a fan of the show and watched it religiously like I did then you are sure to have your favorites and they will have their time to shine. That will […]
