The purpose of single mothers…. It’s disturbing that so many men have negative things to say about the mothers of their children. It is a lot of responsibility to be a mother. I believe the best situation for children are the ones where there is a lot of positivity in it and positive mothers have […]
I can be a busy body at times. Not necessary busy as in doing something, but busy minding other people’s business. That approach to life has never served me well so I have decided to stop the madness and focus on me. I mean it is my life, focusing on others serves no other purpose […]
Narcissistic Women are very superficial, lack empathy and secure senses of self. You may think you won’t encounter any of them as you come into adulthood but oh no, you will still have the deal with bullies even as a grown up. Signs of a Queen Bee Because narcissistic women need attention and validation from […]
We all heard the saying, “The grass is always greener on the other side?” Well it’s an actual, bona-fide syndrome. GIGS or Grass is Greener Syndrome is when a person begins to feel that they can do better in another relationship than the one they are currently in. This can sometimes lead to them dumping […]
So there has been another big altercation that has led to the big fallout and this one is with the ladies of The Real Housewives of Potomac on the Bravo Network. Just in case you need it I have included a clip of the fight. And after you review the fight, I want to move […]
Due to social distancing I am watching documentaries and one of the ones was about Death Row Records. This led me to ponder on all the reasons its CEO, Suge Knight lost the label. These are the 5 things I learned from the Downfall of Suge. 1.Protect your rep You must be a sweetheart to […]
One of the shows I have been binge watching since this social distancing has been Bad Girls Club, remember this guilty pleasure? If you are a fan of the show and watched it religiously like I did then you are sure to have your favorites and they will have their time to shine. That will […]
Vanessa Bryant, the widow of the late Kobe Bryant has responded to the interview her mother did on Univision Monday. When asked if she offended Vanessa she stated I don’t know what to say… In fact here is Vanessa’s response “My husband and daughter passed away unexpectedly and yet my mother had the audacity to […]
The Grand Jury is Out And either way it may spark protests if the officer that killed her gets off…. 26 year old, EMT, Breonna Taylor was killed by Louisville Kentucky police officers on March 13, 2020. Taylor was shot eight times when officers Jonathan Mattingly, Myles Cosgrove and Brett Hankison and allegedly were serving […]
Wow, it’s getting ugly according to TMZ, between Dr. Dre and his wife of twenty four years, Nicole Young. We understand Mrs. Young’s desire to get approximately two million dollars a month in temporary support from the legendary producer. But there has been some developments in this ongoing saga that leads me to believe the […]
As this pandemic wanes on and more financial pressure is being put on the average American to pay for necessities like food, housing, automobile maintenance and child care, the government is concerned with replacing the seat of the late Associate Justice Joan Bader Ginsburg. Wow, way to prioritize. So let me get this straight, as […]
It is being reported that Vanessa Bryant the widow of the late basketball great, Kobe Bryant, has had a falling out with her mother Sofia Laine. It was first reported that Vanessa was leaning on her mother for support after the tragic deaths of both her husband and her 13 year old daughter in a […]
I’m always amazed when another woman asks another woman to go with them somewhere when the reason is they don’t want to be by themselves. Not that I don’t understand the request if it is solely for companionship but when the reason is because so and so will be there? I’m perplexed. If you want […]
I have a difference of opinion from the posts on this subject that you will normally read. I believe that everybody in America is in agreement but they just can’t see it. I’m going to break some things down, so if you want to read my opinion on just where we stand as a country […]
I love meat, or at least I used to. I grew up with long deep freezers full of meat stored in the garage. All you had to do is go out in the garage and there it was a treasure trove of whole hams, turkeys, chickens, fish, ribs, roasts you name it there it was. […]
It’s no secret that the founder of the company and mega label, Chanel was an anti-Semitic “sack of you know what.” But for some reason it’s rarely ever spoken about. Well its true, Coco Chanel was one of the French women who betrayed France by actively supporting the reprehensible Nazi Party. Yeah. The founder of […]
With a title such as the “United” States you would think the government could work together to help the people suffering because of the pandemic. But the government has yet to pass a second stimulus package to help the American economy. Because that is what a stimulus package is suppose to do, stimulate the economy. […]
Narcissists love to triangulate other people to get good supply to regulate their unstable emotions. In this post I will talk about the narcissists’ doormat also known as the “primary supply” (PS) and his shiny new toy also known as the “secondary supply” (SS). While I am using “he” and other masculine pronouns, a female […]
The purpose of this post is to remind people that the deadline to register to vote in your state is approaching. Many states will only allow you to register in person a month before the election, so if you are not registered, go to the link below and sign up. Voting is the best way […]
One of the things that this COVID-19 pandemic has shown is that when put under pressure, Americans will become unhinged. It seems like all the crazies are being caught behaving badly, and while it is sometimes entertaining, most of the interactions caught on video is cringe worthy but predictable. And there are soooo many videos […]
Let’s be clear, we need a system of justice in the United States and law enforcement has its place in that system. The justice system in America is biased in favor of certain people and therefore the law enforcement has proven to be biased. That does not mean we do away with law enforcement but […]
Megan Thee Stallion has finally responded to the reports that she was shot and of course I have an opinion on the matter that I would like to share. I was just as shocked as everyone else that Megan was shot. At first it was reported that she was injured by glass in her foot […]
I love “Classroom of the Elite”. This Anime series is one of the best I have seen so far. I really did enjoy it, so I was excited to binge watch it, so I would suggest you clear your whole day because watching the twelve episodes will be a breeze. Anime binge watching is an […]
Anime is a wonderful way to pass time while we remain stuck in this deadly COVID-19 pandemic especially if you chose an entertaining series. In this post I will review a series that I feel while high on the emotion will definitely bring on the entertainment. I am once again writing about Anime that is […]
I get it, having a reality television star as the President of the United States, I guess Americans have seen it all. But the recent rally that Kanye West has had as a presidential hopeful was unlike anything we have seen before. Its not everyday a presidential candidate ends up weeping about almost killing his […]
I have been there. It hasn’t happened often, but there have been times when I didn’t have a job. Sometimes I quit a job but there was a time or two where I have been fired. Just because someone gets fired people just assumed you must of did something wrong. But there are states where […]
I just recently became a fan of Anime and I previously thought they were just cartoons, but Anime is not cartoons, it is so much more. Formerly thought as a thing for men, I am finding out that a lot of women love Anime, shout out to Megan Thee Stallion for bringing that to our […]
The problem today is the world is getting more and more superficial. Any appeared flaw can be “corrected” with plastic surgery, and the beauty standard is becoming unattainable for the average woman. I grew up in a family where the women were voluptuous while I was flat-chested. I used to wonder why I got skipped […]
The cases of COVID-19 are still rising at an alarming rate in The United States, but the good thing is a lot more people are wearing a mask. Even the president wore one, after some resistance. I was amazed because he was the main one defying common sense. (And I’m still waiting for his supporters […]
August Alsina is a talented singer, but did anyone know he has an album coming out? That fact has been overshadowed by the scandalous headlines about his personal life. And while, yes I plan to talk about the dramatic events that have taken place lately, I’m going to first talk about his music, because at […]
Human beings communicate in a variety of ways. Facial expressions are another way human beings express themselves. Our faces are the way we figure out the way some one is feeling, but looks can be deceiving especially when it is somewhat intentional. According to Joe Navarro, some looks on the human face makes other human […]
Every day the numbers are rising, and more and more people are getting the novel COVID-19 strain of the coronavirus. Yet you have all these people who are choosing not to social distance and not to wear masks. And if you are one of those people, then this post is not for you. This post […]
So recently there has been a lot of attention given to Aunt Jemima and removing her from the pancake syrup bottle, but a I feel like we are getting sidetracked. It almost feels like a diversion, because while we focus on removing images, did we forget about the images that need to be added? Well […]
Are we living in the “Purge” or what exactly is the name of this Horror Movie? I went to sleep one day, and when I woke up? America is literally in the middle of a horror flick. Every day, all day, what am I surrounded with? Disaster after disaster with no end in sight. I […]
I get it. It’s easy to compare her to Meg Thee Stallion. The comparisons come so easy. They are both strong women out of Texas, but let’s be fair here, Erica Banks is different and it is not just that she is from Dallas, and not from Houston. And while some are not willing to […]
What a question right? It seems like it should be an easy one to answer. Obviously if your child’s grandparent is abusive to the child you wouldn’t allow them to be around your child. Things like hard drug use and alcoholism can be a risk factor, and it would be conceivable that a parent might […]
JUNE 2020 is PRIDE MONTH @whenthiswomanspeaks.com June is pride month for the LGBTQ community and we @ whenthiswomanspeaks.com would like to celebrate by reporting some good news that took place this month. Are you enjoying June? Have you been enjoying Pride month? Are you sad that it is ending? Well don’t stress or be pressed, […]
We all know one, and some of us have the unfortunate experience of trying to have a romantic relationship with one and they can be a male or female. Who pray tell am I referring to? The ever so thirsty Player… The Player is also a narcissist. It is very important that you know your […]
Note to The Reader: I’m not from Texas, but my maternal family is. If you never had the pleasure of being around a Texas woman, you don’t know the joy of being enveloped in love. They are some of the kindest, sweetest and most capable women I have ever met. And while I grew up […]
If you have been on social media then you have seen them, women refusing to wear a mask but still insisting on going into stores and being allowed to shop. Who does that? I too watch in amusement as a irate woman screams into the face of the store clerk, “This is America, and I […]
Speak up! Spread Love to the Transgendered Woman… Right now, in America, the “Black Lives Matter” movement has picked up steam and has now taken off. Internet and Television is amplifying the movement, but I want to amplify another movement that people have failed to take notice of. The “Trans Lives Matter” movement needs to […]
With 80 percent of single parent households being headed women it’s no wonder why many women are stressed. A Baby Mama is a woman who has a child or children with a man she is not married to. That fact alone lead people to assume she will be bitter because it is widely assumed that […]
Disclaimer: If you are a victim of narcissistic abuse, I advise you to seek professional counseling and at the end of this article I will include some resources that may help. If you insist on going there I do have some strategies that will assist you in getting a revenge on a narcissist. Beware if […]
For the record, 2019 had not been the greatest year, but many were hopeful that 2020 would be better. –Anonymous Well judging by the social media posts, memes and just regular run of the mill conversations, 2020 has been quite the year so far. Plenty has happened and we are just halfway through. I have […]
